In How to Be, noted author and editor Harriette Cole treats manners as a resource for the empowerment of the black community. She offers guidance drawn from the tried-and-true experience and wisdom of African American elders, as well as from European mainstream traditions in many areas of life, including:
-Family--immediate, extended, and blended
-New codes of dating, love, and sex
-Entertaining family, friends, and coworkers in both casual and formal settings
-Workplace issues -- from how to resign to what to wear on casual Fridays
-Rites of passage, including weddings and funerals
-Holiday celebrations like Christmas, Kwanzaa, and Juneteenth and much more