ABCs of 'It Happened to Me': Healing After Unsafe Touch

ABCs of "It Happened to Me": Healing After Unsafe Touch - A Guide for Kids and Parents

As a trauma therapist and mother of four, I know firsthand how difficult it is for parents to start conversations with their children about unsafe touch. That's why I wrote ABCs of "It Happened to Me"-to provide an easy-to-understand, trauma-informed guide that helps children heal and gives parents the tools to support them.

This book is not just a story-it's a lifeline. Designed for children aged 4-12, it offers a simple, step-by-step approach to understanding body safety, emotions, and healing. It empowers kids to feel safe, understood, and heard, while also providing parents with the guidance and language they need to talk about tough topics in a supportive, nurturing way.

1. Trauma-Informed Approach

ABCs of "It Happened to Me" takes a gentle, trauma-informed approach, helping children process complex emotions like fear, confusion, and shame. Each page offers simple, clear lessons on body autonomy, healthy boundaries, and emotional growth.

2. Parent Guide & Questions

At the end of the book, you'll find a Parent Guide with helpful questions to ask your child. These questions ensure that your child understands the book's messages and help create a safe space for deeper conversations about their feelings.

3. Empowering Sound Bites for Parents

Each page includes sound bites for parents to use with their child, offering comforting, empowering phrases that reassure children they are loved and safe. These sound bites are designed to help parents guide their children through the healing process, one step at a time.

4. Safety Planning and Resources

The book also includes tips for creating a Safety Plan, helping children feel secure by identifying trusted adults, using code words, and knowing what actions to take if they ever feel unsafe.

5. A One-of-a-Kind Resource

This book is the first of its kind-a practical, trauma-informed guide that helps both children and parents navigate healing from unsafe touch. There is nothing else like it on the market, and I created it because I saw the need for a resource that was both educational and supportive.