Not My Fault: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse and Reclaiming Who You Are

Have you ever felt like you were drowning in self-doubt, walking on eggshells, or questioning your own sanity - all in the name of love?
You're not crazy. You're not too sensitive. And you're definitely not to blame.
Not My Fault: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse and Reclaiming Who You Are is the healing lifeline survivors of narcissistic abuse have been searching for. Written with clarity, compassion, and soul-deep insight, this book takes you on a journey from confusion to clarity, from silence to truth, and from emotional survival to unapologetic freedom.
Narcissistic abuse is not always bruises and broken windows. It's often hidden behind charm, subtle control, gaslighting, and a slow erasure of your identity. This book doesn't just help you name what happened - it helps you take your power back.
Inside This Groundbreaking Book, You'll Discover:
- The many faces of narcissism (overt, covert, communal, and malignant) - and how to identify them
- Why your empathy made you a target, not your weakness
- The emotional rollercoaster: love bombing, gaslighting, devaluation, discard - and how to break the cycle
- The roots of self-blame and how shame was programmed into you, especially if you grew up with emotionally unavailable parents
- How narcissists manipulate attachment wounds, trauma responses, and deep desires to feel seen
- The war between your head and your heart, and how to finally trust yourself again
- How to own your anger as a sacred, healing force - not a character flaw
- Real-life tools to rebuild your reality, boundaries, voice, and identity
Each chapter ends with breakthrough insights and emotional validation to help you reclaim what narcissistic abuse tried to destroy: your truth, your self-worth, and your voice.
This book is for you if:
- You've ever said, "Maybe it's me" after being blamed again and again
- You still miss the person who hurt you - and don't understand why
- You were taught to put others first, even when it cost you your peace
- You want to understand your story without shame - and rewrite it with power
- You're finally ready to stop surviving and start becoming
You've carried the pain long enough.
Now it's time to carry yourself.
This isn't just recovery. It's rebirth.
Your Next Chapter Begins Now
If you're ready to stop asking what's wrong with you and start asking what happened to you - this book is your mirror, your map, and your momentum.