After years of playing and coaching (that never seemed to help), Dr. Wendy realized that everything she was being instructed to do also sounds like things she says in her practice as a sex therapist (like "Communication is key - talk with your partner"). She found herself laughing on the court, and then with patients (not a good thing!).
Sharing this insight with other tennis players always elicited huge laughs and encouragement to put these in a book, and here it is! Give this to your partner, or your partner, and laugh together.