It may be difficult for a person to develop a love for oneself if they are not well-versed in their own identity and do not have a clear picture of who they are. This is because they do not know who they are and so cannot find affection for themselves. Invest some time in figuring out the things that are important to you, the causes that you support, and the activities that you love doing in your free time. Do this so that you may better understand yourself. Because of this, you will be able to improve your decision-making in the future.